Co-founder of BETTER. Author of Keep Chopping Wood. Speaker/Coach/Consultant to high-performers.
Sep 26, 2026
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why we can't make everybody happy
Sep 19, 2026
Don’t wait for something to break before you start taking care of it.
Sep 12, 2026
lessons from fighting drift in marriage for twenty years
Sep 5, 2026
learn to return fast
Aug 29, 2026
the lie of thinking we'll get to it later
Aug 22, 2026
learning to appreciate the imperfect and incomplete
Aug 15, 2026
Move from self-awareness to service
Aug 8, 2026
The lie is that what you need is out there
Aug 1, 2026
We don't need a life without resistance. We need the strength to withstand the climb.
Jul 25, 2026
Community isn't optional for men. It’s an operational necessity.
Jul 18, 2026
Why mimicking a "proven formula" is the easiest way to lose your voice.
Jul 11, 2026
You cannot be at your best if you are running on empty.
Jul 4, 2026
A chapter is not a whole book
Jun 27, 2026
Your standard is not their standard
Jun 20, 2026
2 min read
A goal out of sight is a direction you've quietly stopped choosing.
Jun 13, 2026
3 min read
when you lead everything but forgot to lead yourself
Jun 6, 2026
who is running your inner life?
May 30, 2026
A lot of men are living off the heat of a fire they quit tending years ago.
May 23, 2026
relational drift is rarely loud
May 16, 2026
Most men trade the basics for comfort and don't notice until it costs them.
May 9, 2026
where drift shows up in our daily lives
May 2, 2026
and was it the version you wanted?
Apr 25, 2026
You don't build it at the end. You build it today.
Apr 18, 2026
the calendar isn't the problem
Apr 11, 2026
Why working harder isn't the answer