What story are you telling yourself?

THE STORY YOU TELL YOURSELF

You’re not drifting because you’re weak. You’re not drifting because you’re incapable.

You’re drifting because of the story you’ve been telling yourself.

That you’re not good enough.
That you’re not strong enough.
That you’ll never follow through.
That you’ll always screw it up.
That you’re too far gone.

Somewhere along the way, you stopped believing you could change.
Stopped believing you were capable of more.
Stopped believing you were worthy of becoming the man you wanted to be.

So you settled.
You accepted a lower standard.
You stayed busy chasing the things that looked like success, hoping they’d finally make you feel like a man who mattered.

But no amount of money, possessions or accomplishments can fix a broken story.

Because the story you tell yourself becomes the life you live.

This is why our survey showed 54% of men struggle with consistency. It's not an ability problem - it's a story problem. They've convinced themselves they're "just not disciplined" so they stopped trying to be. Repeat a thought enough times and it becomes true.

📌 QUOTE OF THE WEEK "Our life is what our thoughts make it." - Marcus Aurelius

🧠 INSIGHT: 
Every action you take flows from the story you believe.

If you believe you’re a failure, you’ll act like one.
If you believe you’re a man of purpose, you’ll start living with intention.

It’s not just about discipline.
It’s about identity.
You don’t rise to your goals - you fall to your story.

💪 DISCIPLINE: 
Start telling yourself a better story. Instead of "I'm not a morning person," try "I'm becoming someone who wins the morning." Instead of "I'm not good with money," try "I'm learning to manage money well." Instead of "I always quit," try "I'm building the skill of persistence." Small shift in language. Massive shift in identity.

NO DRIFT CHALLENGE

Write down one lie you’ve been believing.
Then write the truth that needs to replace it.

Now ask:
What would a man who believes this truth do today?

Then do it.
One small decision. One brave action. One step toward the man you were created to be.

I’d love to hear what challenge you take on this week. Reply to this email to let me know. Even better, post it on Instagram and tag @no.drift. Let’s build a community of encouragement there.

BE INTENTIONAL

The story you believe will either build your life or bury it.
Believe better. Then live better.

For you,
Kevin

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